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Sifaan Zavahir's avatar

Not hitting another is not MAKING the child do something, it’s PREVENTING them from doing something (for the very good reason that the person being hit is not consenting to it. If they did consent, and both parties agree to the rules, like adults do when they wrestle or box, it’s ok)

For things like making them wear seatbelts, brush their teeth, wait for the lights at crossings - those are rules that apply also to adults. It is much easier to accept them as fair.

Adults imposing things on children (the likes of which would be harassment if imposed on an adult) is where the problem lies. Imagine if a woman told her husband that he can only watch his favourite program on television if he read for 15 minutes first

(Intentionally reversed typical gender roles)

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Charles Warcup's avatar

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

Fortunately.

Imagine what it would be like *trying* to make a horse drink.

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