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Jack Watson's avatar

I read somewhere that the way we speak to children becomes their inner monologue. I think about that every day and use it to speak to them how I hope they speak to themselves one day.

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Jeannette's avatar

How many adults can recall something like this from our childhood? I was that should who was always sick, and because of that I was also very anxious. I remember one school report where the teacher shamed me for missing so many days, and how if I “applied myself better” I would be an A student. I was so upset and filled with shame, I was only about 10. I’d had surgery and subsequent infections, something I couldn’t help. I still think about it sometimes, amongst other examples. I’ve had talks with friends, now that we have our own kids, about how this affected us and how we worry for our children’s journeys through school. We all had our own recollections, which proves that it does indeed stay with you.

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