The Psychology of Demand Avoidance
Michael, why would you use the language 'power seeker' when talking about a child? Have you considered the feelings of the child behind the behaviour?
Not sure if No is a shield. Adler would suggest constant No’s is about power. If a parent feels angry when faced with No’s then it’s about power. Parents best to use the language of cooperation rather than coercion when faced with a power seeker.
Michael, why would you use the language 'power seeker' when talking about a child? Have you considered the feelings of the child behind the behaviour?
Not sure if No is a shield. Adler would suggest constant No’s is about power. If a parent feels angry when faced with No’s then it’s about power. Parents best to use the language of cooperation rather than coercion when faced with a power seeker.